{"id":763,"date":"2020-12-27T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-12-27T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/blog\/2020\/12\/27\/year-in-books-2020\/"},"modified":"2024-01-05T12:21:50","modified_gmt":"2024-01-05T12:21:50","slug":"year-in-books-2020","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/blog\/year-in-books-2020\/","title":{"rendered":"My Year in Books &#8211; 2020"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>For me, this year has been insightful into the practice of reading. For long, I assumed that it is an effortless habit and wondered why more people don\u2019t just jump into the myriad rabbit holes of different worlds that books offered. This year though, I realised that there is more to it than meets the eye.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Once the lockdown started, I thought that this would be the year when I would break all possible boundaries of reading a vast variety of enriching books in all possible genres. Gradually, it dawned on me that reading is a very momentum-based habit, which for me had a big trigger. As soon as I sat in almost any public transport especially while travelling alone, my hand would go of its\u2019 own volition to my hand bag to extract the paperback I was lugging around. When you lose a certain rhythm, at times it can get hard to get back or feel the grip of words calling out to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I look back at my year in books for 2020, in some ways it\u2019s made up of fits and starts which atleast at a glance looks mostly fine. However, if I were to evaluate myself by more stringent standards, I can just not wait to get back to reading effortlessly again. Read on to check out the 55 books that made up my 2020 to take your picks and hopefully get inspired. As always, click on the title of the book to either land on a blog post for the same or it\u2019s Goodreads page. For most books, I have also added a quote which really caught my fancy from the book.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In case you missed it, this is my third Year in Books post and you can check out the previous two right here:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/year-in-books-2019\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">My year in boo<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/blog\/year-in-books-2019\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"k\">k<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/blog\/year-in-books-2019\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">s \u2013 2019<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/blog\/year-in-books-2018\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">My year in books &#8211; 2018<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Before you plunge headlong, note that this as usual is my longest post of the year almost hitting 6,500 words. If need be, you might want to bookmark the page and revisit a few times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>January<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/blog\/designing-your-life\/\" title=\"\">1. Designing your life &#8211; Bill Burnett &amp; Dave Evans<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This tiny teal blue cover book was one of my scarce American library picks. While there was very little new for anyone who has read maybe 5 or 7 personal growth books, it still gave a good guide map to identify where your life is headed. In case, you feel stuck in life with respect to personal or professional life, then this is a good pick to help with figuring out a way forward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>A well designed life is a marvelous portfolio of experiences, of adventures, of failures that taught you important lessons, of hardships that made you stronger and helped you know yourself better, and of achievements and satisfactions.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>-Designing Your Life, Bill Burnett &amp; Dave Evans<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/7763.The_Joy_Luck_Club\">2. Joy luck club &#8211; Amy Tan<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This book snuck into my reading list in the days of active in-person Book Club meetings. Reading it gave me a wonderful view into the lives of Chinese immigrants in the US over the decades. In some ways, it was a reminder of the joy of reading which can open up totally new worlds. Although, I was a little dissatisfied in the end with the way the stories seemed to hang in balance with no resolution per se.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>And I think now that fate is shaped half by expectation, half by inattention. But somehow, when you lose something you love, faith takes over. You have to pay attention to what you lost. You have to undo the expectation.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>-Joy Luck Club, Amy Tan<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/blog\/coffee-can-investing\/\" title=\"\">3. Coffee can investing &#8211; Saurabh Mukherjea, Rakshit Ranjan, Pranab Uniyal<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the few investing reads for me this year, this was one of the better Indian personal finance reads for me. Much acclaimed considering the performance of their portfolio, the strategy gives a good idea of value investing in the Indian landscape. Check out this post for a good idea of some of the gems from the book.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>Although Kirby made the discovery of the Coffee Can Portfolio sound serendipitous, the central insight behind this construct \u2013 that in order to truly become rich an investor has to let a sensibly constructed portfolio stay untouched for a long period of time \u2013 is as powerful as it is profound.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211; Coffee can investing, Saurabh Mukherjea, Rakshit Ranjan, Pranab Uniyal<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>February<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/41081373-girl-woman-other\">4. Girl, woman, other &#8211; Bernadette Everine<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This much acclaimed Booker Prize winner of 2019 was a Christmas gift from a family member. Hearing and reading all the hype about it, I was pretty intrigued about it myself. God, it was probably my most awful completed book of the year! The novel didn\u2019t really read like one. In fact, I was confused whether these were just character sketches rather than a novel per se. Reading this and another Booker nominee down the line, I did wonder whether I should keep away from all things Booker.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>As if she was the kind of woman who\u2019s amputate her aspirations to become one of his decorative appendages.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211; Girl, woman, other, Bernadette Everine<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/43641.Water_for_Elephants?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=4Oud9iVjK7&amp;rank=1\">5. Water for elephants &#8211; Sara Gruen<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This was an interesting read even though it had quite a bit of masala. Just the world Gruen painted of life at a circus in the early 20<sup>th<\/sup> century was fascinating in itself. It made for a good change of scene from most other books.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/17237217-social\">6. Social: Why our brains are wired to connect &#8211; Mathew Lieberman<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This book served to cement something I have come to believe in for the last few years. The fact that social connections and friendships are an important ingredient to smoothening out this journey called life. What\u2019s funny though is that I read the book some time before the coronavirus crisis hit, a time which did even more to bring home just how important relationships are in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>Yet the closer friends become, the less they tend to keep track of who has done more or less for one another. Often, a friend\u2019s primary value is the comfort of knowing we have friends.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite>&#8211;<em>Social: Why our brains are wired to connect, Mathew Lieberman<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/35495605-man-of-her-match?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=7rt1i6pXhi&amp;rank=1\">7. Man of her match &#8211; Sakshama Puri Dhariwal<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a book I picked from a pre-loved book sale. While it looked like a usual romantic comedy book, my reason to pick it up was simply because the author was one year my senior in school. However, it also turned out to be like a lot of the other romance books I have read and not been much impressed by.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/311150.Arabella\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">8. Arabella -Georgette Heyer<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Having read one of the mysteries written by Georgette Heyer and having thoroughly enjoyed it, I picked up my first Heyer Victorian romances. Reading romance is a guilty pleasure but I am also weirdly picky about it. I realised Victorian romances with a singular plotline are not my cup of tea. Although I may still pick up another Georgette Heyer mystery or two.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/69242.Made_to_Stick?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=OxyDfwVrN7&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">9. Made to stick &#8211; Dan &amp; Chip Heath<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This was an interesting book which reminded me of my days as a marketer. Dan &amp; Chip Heath do a good take on the basis of what makes ideas sticky and how to go about thinking and strategizing for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>It is hard to make ideas stick in a noisy, unpredictable, chaotic environment. If we\u2019re to succeed, the first step is this: Be simple. Not simple in terms of \u201cdumbing down\u201d or \u201csound bites\u201d. You don\u2019t have to speak in monosyllables to be simple. What we mean by \u201csimple\u201d is finding the core of the idea.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>-Made to stick, Dan &amp; Chip Heath<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>March<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/7265113-how-remarkable-women-lead?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=iaCqXSGmCV&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">10. How remarkable women lead &#8211; Joanna Barsh &amp; Susie Cranston<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ironically, two out of the three books I read in the month of celebrating International Womens Week had gender at the heart of it. This book was a good, well-researched analysis of the differences in how women lead and also how some innate female traits could be harnessed for the purpose of leadership.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>Good things and bad things happen to everyone. What makes the difference is how you work with this raw material of life. Over and over, the women leaders talked about opportunities and how they didn\u2019t hesitate to take them. As we dug deeper, we discovered a recurring theme: These women approached new situations for their possibilities.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite>&#8211;<em>&#8211; How remarkable women lead, Joanna Barsh &amp; Susie Cranston<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/en\/book\/show\/43293099\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">11. Forest of enchantments &#8211; Chitra Divakaruni<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>The first time I read The Palace of Illusions by Chitra Divakaruni, I was a fan. I have always felt that most religions and mythologies end up giving a short shrift to women. Imagining the same timeless tales from the point of view of a woman is something that enraptured me for sure. In fact, as someone who is embarrassingly low on Hindu mythology knowledge, it is with reading Divakarunis\u2019 take on the two epics, Mahabharat and Ramayana through this book that I have a better hold on those. So yes, read this book to understand and experience Ramayana seen through the lens of Sita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>This incident taught me that the more love we distribute, the more it grows, coming back to us from unexpected sources. And it\u2019s corollary: when we demand love, believing it to be our right, it shrivels, leaving only resentment behind.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211; Forest of enchantments, Chitra Divakaruni<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/34066798-a-gentleman-in-moscow\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">12. A gentleman in Moscow &#8211; Amor Towles<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A much acclaimed book, this was a Book Club read for me. Not only did I absolutely love the language but in some ways it was like a trot through a few decades of contemporary Russian history. As for the storyline, I just loved the&nbsp; way Count Alexander Rostov makes the best of his situation and of course, his relationships especially with the two young ladies. If this sounds scandalous, read the book to know it is meant with a pure as snow intent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>But while he was liberating a wedge of plum from its pit with his paring knife, the Count happened to note a silvery shadow, as seemingly insubstantial as a puff of smoke, slipping behind his trunk.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite>&#8211; <em>A gentleman in Moscow, Amor Towles<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>April<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/10916.The_Pact?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=jkuU7fQC8V&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">13. The pact &#8211; Jodi Picoult<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I have enjoyed many Jodi Picoult novels and this pick from the American Library was no different. I love how she is able to come up with strange human conundrums and then spin such a sparkling, throbbing web around it. In this one, where two teenagers&nbsp; have a suicide pact and only one ends up dying is obviously enough to split families. Add the layer of the two families being neighbours and close friends for years and you know you have all elements of a gripping read.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/33413128-beartown?from_search=true&amp;from_srp=true&amp;qid=NrS9HxHTpQ&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">14. Beartown &#8211; Frederik Backman<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>For me, Frederik Backman is indelibly associated with one of my favouritest (I am willing to bend the language to just convey how much I love this book) reads \u2013 A Man Called Ove. To say I went in with high expectations would be an under statement. While the plot is good and the picture of the town vividly painted, the tone has varied dark undertones of melancholy. Probably coming from another author, I might have enjoyed this book more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>Hockey is just a silly little game. We devote year after year after year to it without ever really hoping to get anything in return. We burn and bleed and cry, fully aware that the most the sport can give us, in the very best scenario, is incomprehensibly meagre and worthless: just a few isolated moments of transcendence. That\u2019s all.<\/em> &#8230;.. <em>But what the hell else is life made of?<\/em><\/p>\n<cite>&#8211;<em>&#8211;<\/em> <em>Beartown, Frederik Backman<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/40389527-the-woman-in-the-window?from_search=true&amp;from_srp=true&amp;qid=u3q5cjoPTp&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">15. The woman in the window &#8211; AJ Finn<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I really got hooked to this genre of psychological thrillers after reading Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn. On a side note, have you noticed how in this genre the crazy protagonist is mostly female? Anyhow, this was&nbsp; a good change and it did keep you gripped and curious as the layers of the story unfolded, be it with the woman, her tenant or her neighbours. A quick, one-time read for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/blog\/broke-millennial-erin-lowry\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">16. Broke millennial: Stop scraping by and get your financial life together &#8211; Erin Lowry<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>As a personal finance blogger, I would have to be seriously ignorant to not have heard of Erin Lowry or her Broke Millennial franchise. This was her first book in the series. While I ended up reading her second book on investing last year, I gave a shot to the first one this time. Although I wrote about it in detail, the one lasting impression I remember from this book was a very school matron kind of tone who is also trying really hard to fit in and talk in the cool kids\u2019 language. If I had to recommend a basic financial book even to a youngster, this may not really make the cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>May<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/10134852-meet-me-at-the-cupcake-caf?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=mBUvmxrrz7&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">17. Meet me at the cupcake caf\u00e9 &#8211; Jenny Colgan<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>To be honest, I really loved the plot. Probably because almost anyone who enjoys baking has often though of ditching a regular job to do it the whole wide day and earn money from the endeavour. But, there was nothing too exciting in the writing or how things unfolded. My favourite part of the book? The cupcake recipes sprinkled through it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>Life was always easier, reflected Issy, when you were carrying a large Tupperware full of cakes. Everyone was happy to see you then.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211;<\/em> <em>Meet me at the cupcake caf\u00e9, Jenny Colgan<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/32600707-map-of-the-heart?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=A9P4ueWq9X&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">18. Map of the heart &#8211; Susan Wiggs<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Oh, this was a fun book. A woman who goes to Tuscany and then ends up getting links to World War two in her family history is right up my alley. History and travel with a dash of romance made for a good read.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/29780253-born-a-crime?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=D3qoGpnPCi&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">19. Born a crime &#8211; Trevor Noah<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the most acclaimed autobiographies of the year, in the middle of the lockdown it made me feel greatful for my blessings in life. Also, reading about Noah\u2019s growing up years felt like diving into a different world and indulging in wanderlust at a time when it was physically impossible. Although, at the end I felt like I didn\u2019t get what I was promised. My main curiosity of how Noah made that jump from poor quarters in Johannesburg to becoming a well-acclaimed celebrity in the US was never addressed. But then, that is what leaves room for another book, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>People are willing to accept you if they see you as an outsider trying to assimilate into their world. But when they see you as a fellow tribe member attempting to disavow the tribe, that is something they will never forgive.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite>&#8211;<em>&#8211;<\/em> <em>Born a crime, Trevor Noah<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/25883848-the-hating-game\">20. The hating game &#8211; Sally Thorpe<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>For me, romance books are often like palate cleansers. After a few serious or heavy reads, I need a break. However, despite fairly high ratings I didn\u2019t really enjoy this office romance much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/43220998-the-fountains-of-silence?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=2Ya56cT1kx&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">21. The fountains of silence &#8211; Ruta Septys<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>For a few days after finishing this book I was floating with a warm glow of having ingested a memorable read. Based in General Franco-era Spain and unfolding over a few decades, I was enamored. It\u2019s one of those books that I have probably recommended to almost any reader I bumped into this year. The spinning of the story, blending of the facts and just the sensory details of the era were absolutely bewitching. A must must read.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>There are colors of beauty in Madrid, but also colors of hardship. Ghosts of war walk the streets in Spain. Daniel passes blind lottery vendors, citizens missing limbs, young people using canes. Should he look directly at them and acknowledge their sacrifice or look away and honor their dignity?<\/em><\/p>\n<cite>&#8211; The fountains of silence, Ruta Septys<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>June<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/blog\/factfulness-hans-rosling\/\" title=\"\">22. Factfulness &#8211; Hans Rosling<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes, books come in your life at the perfect time. It was June and the realisation of this war against coronavirus being long drawn was beginning to hit in waves of pessimism. At that moment, I picked up this book that comes highly recommended by Bill Gates. And was I glad I did so?! Rosling demonstrated how we humans mostly focus on the negative aspects of our life not bothering to see the slow, creeping signs of progress. As I read of his experience in trying to stall the rampant spread of ebola, all I could think of was wish he was still alive to be a valuable ally in defeating this crazy disease.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>Factfulness is \u2026 recognizing when a story talks about a gap, and remembering that this paints a picture of two separate groups, with a gap in between. The reality is often not polarized at all. Usually the majority is right there in the middle, where the gap is supposed to be.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211; Factfulness, Hans Rosling<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/blog\/mastering-market-cycle-howard-marks\/\" title=\"\">23. Mastering the market cycle &#8211; Howard Marks<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I confess I am slightly embarrassed to admit that this was my first time discovering Horward Marks. Although his fund specialises in distressed assets, all the things that he said made so much sense for my favourite asset of equities as well. However, if I were to critically mention one thing then I think the book could have been better edited and shorter. A lot of times the same things and aspects seemed to be repeated with a gift wrap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>If we study past cycles, understand their origins and import, and keep alert for the next one, we don\u2019t have to reinvent the wheel in order to understand every investment environment anew. And we have less of a chance of being blindsided by events. We can master these recurring patterns for our betterment.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211;<\/em> <em>Mastering the market cycle, Howard Marks<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/15815359-the-first-muslim?from_search=true&amp;from_srp=true&amp;qid=L1IhsA6hmH&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">24. The first Muslim &#8211; Leslie Hazleton<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>The book was recommended to me by a friend last year which I finally read this time round. Although I have a few muslim friends and have read a bit about the rise of Islam during my graduation years in history, I admit my understanding was still very superficial. This book is fantastic for anyone wanting to know more about one of the world\u2019s most important religions and how it came about. What it also does really well is to show Muhammad more as a human life with some of the greys in it as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>Perhaps this is why it can be so hard to see who Muhammad really was. The purity of perfection denies the complexity of a lived life.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211;<\/em> <em>The first Muslim, Leslie Hazleton<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/29010395-i-am-not-your-perfect-mexican-daughter?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=VLTu0BY1ZL&amp;rank=1\">25. I am not your perfect Mexican daughter &#8211; Erika Sanchez<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>The beautiful title and the cover drew me to this book. I loved getting a glimpse into a Mexican household and viewing the opposing pulls on coming-of-age immigrant kids. Apart from that, the intrigue in the story too makes it well worth a read.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>\u201cGet back here,\u201d Ama yells after me. \u201cWhat kind of a woman are you going to be if you can\u2019t even make a tortilla?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211; I am not your perfect Mexican daughter, Erika Sanchez<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/32075853-erotic-stories-for-punjabi-widows?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=eYYakx5gOH&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">26. Erotic stories for punjabi widows &#8211; Balli Kaur Jaswal<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Another story with immigrant culture at its\u2019 heart, the title of the book is an outright winner. As for the storyline, the main skeleton of repressed desires of women especially widows was a win for me. The evolution of characters and treading with caution on tricky cultural lines was all done beautifully in this quick read.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>July<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/44595007-indistractable?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=3PaS3d0lop&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">27. Indistractable &#8211; Nir Eyal<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Another productivity read, although after Cal Newports\u2019 Deep Work all others seem like pale imitations. This one was a good one-time read with decent lessons to take home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/32198220-the-airbnb-story?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=kYjBT2eFiu&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">28. The airbnb story &#8211; Leigh Gallaghar<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>What an year to read about airbnb, one where in the middle of the year they announce a 25{76b947d7ef5b3424fa3b69da76ad2c33c34408872c6cc7893e56cc055d3cd886} employee cut only to end the same year with an IPO listing at 112{76b947d7ef5b3424fa3b69da76ad2c33c34408872c6cc7893e56cc055d3cd886} premium. As someone who has an entrepreneurial itch that is yet to be scratched, this was a good, well-balanced read. If you are someone who looks at the valuations of star startups in envy, reading this books gives a good insight into just how much it took to get there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>It isn\u2019t just Chesky, Gebbia and Blecharczyk espouse these beliefs, too, and they permeate the air at the company\u2019s headquarters. The company likes to say that it is \u201cthe UN at the kitchen table,\u201d bringing people together from different worlds and uniting strangers.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211;<\/em> <em>The airbnb story, Leigh Gallaghar<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/54114950-too-much-and-never-enough?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=qEOUwzBW2h&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">29. Too much and never enough &#8211; Mary Trump<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ugh! Yeah, that\u2019s my description for the book in one word. I am no Trump supporter and considering the flurry of books that were being released that time, this one seemed like a good one to attempt. The only thing Mary seemed to be attempting to do is draw the readers\u2019 attention to the fact that her father (who clearly had failings of his own) was mistreated by his brother Donald and grandfather who always favoured the younger one. Funnily enough, the book starts on a note of Mary attending an event Donald organised, hosting the entire extended family to the White House for one of the sisters\u2019 birthdays. Strike one for hypocrisy is how I saw it. Spoiler alert, there is a lot of name calling in the book too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>Only the most dedicated optimist could have lived in Sunnyside Towers without losing hope. There was no doorman, and the plastic plants and flowers that filled the two large planters on either side of the plexiglass front door were perpetually coated in a thin film of dust.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>-Too much and never enough, Mary Trump<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>August<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/37570546-maybe-you-should-talk-to-someone?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=FH2jcnOEys&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">30. Maybe you should talk to someone &#8211; Lori Gottlieb<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When most places in the world are seeing a spike in the number of people seeking help for mental health, this book strikes a fine balance. Gottlieb perfectly blends together stories from her practice as a therapist with her experience of seeing one herself, all in a very breezy readable manner. Along the way, she sprinkles beautiful gems that can help while living our lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>But what are we so afraid of? It\u2019s not as if we\u2019re going to peer in those darker corners, flip on the light, and find a bunch of cockroaches. Fireflies love the dark too. There\u2019s beauty in those places. But we have to look in there to see it.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211;<\/em> <em>Maybe you should talk to someone, Lori Gottlieb<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/33590210-an-american-marriage?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=29pohSRpjN&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">31. An American marriage &#8211; Tayari Jones<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This was a recommendation by Barack Obama in one of his book lists. With this one, I am a bit on the fence. I thought it had a decent plot and complexities to it. But, even as I got done with it, I never understood what the hype was all about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>If you have a woman, you recognise when you have said the wrong thing. Somehow she rearranges the ions in the air and you can\u2019t breathe as well.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211;<\/em> <em>An American marriage, Tayari Jones<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/29367958-the-wall-of-winnipeg-and-me?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=K7W9hcaXLZ&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">32. The wall of Winnipeg and me &#8211; Mariana Zapata<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Sports and romance is obviously a favoured mix for me considering that\u2019s what I used as a backdrop in my debut with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/55646531-second-serve?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=hI2b92mtsO&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Second Serve<\/a>. However, what gets to me is when romance&nbsp; gets too fluffy or too heavy with emotion which I thought this book was also guilty of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/27220736-shoe-dog?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=qyNGyFAdbN&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">33. Shoe dog &#8211; Phil Knight<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the best business books I have read. Global brands are something most of us come in contact with once they are already of a certain stature. With Shoe Dog, it was quite a journey to go behind the scenes and see the brand being birthed and nourished to the size that it has attained. My big takeaway?&nbsp; Get into a business only if you have a burning passion which can sustain you through the bumps that it will inevitable come with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>So that morning in 1962 I told myself: Let everyone else call your idea crazy\u2026 just keep going. Don\u2019t stop. Don\u2019t even think about stopping until you get there, and don\u2019t give much thought to where \u201cthere\u201d is. Whatever comes, just don\u2019t stop.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211;<\/em> <em>Shoe dog, Phil Knight<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/4069.Man_s_Search_for_Meaning?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=2uhMZgAHTT&amp;rank=1\">34. Man&#8217;s search for meaning &#8211; Viktor Frankl<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This was like a follow up book that I picked up after reading Gottlieb\u2019s Maybe you should talk to someone. While the sexist title still gets my goat, this short heavy read just strengthened my resolve of continuing to hunt for meaning in my life. A meaning that doesn\u2019t come with a price tag. If not the book, definitely Wikipedia&nbsp; Frankl to be awed by the life he led.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>The prisoner who has lost faith in the future \u2013 his future \u2013 was doomed. With his loss of belief in the future, he also lost his spiritual hold; he let himself decline and become subject to mental and physical decay.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211;<\/em> <em>Man&#8217;s search for meaning, Viktor Frankl<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>September<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/44285117-the-dressmaker-s-gift?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=KRk6WRDwut&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">35. The dressmakers gift &#8211; Fiona Valpy<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It really was a year of quite a few historical fiction reads for me. Paris, Second World War, Fashion. Need I say any more? Although, in my opinion three things make a historical fiction really sparkle \u2013 setting, story plot line and writing quality. For me, this book ticked the first two boxes very well although the third was just fine. In case of Fountains of Silence by Ruta Septys in May, all three boxes were a winner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>Life can seem so very tenuous sometimes. But perhaps that fragility is why we treasure it so. And perhaps it is our profound love of life that makes us so terrified of losing it.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211;<\/em> <em>The dressmakers gift, Fiona Valpy<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/40776644-the-moment-of-lift?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=4KKQ6Veen5&amp;rank=1\">36. The moment of lift &#8211; Melinda Gates<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A lot of us harbour envy and to an extent disgust for the uber rich. But, for the last few years I have come to believe money only accentuates your value. The right person will use money and their position to open doors for the right things. This book reinforced my faith in this thought. Melinda Gates outlines some of the lessons she has learnt through the work she has done for the Gates foundation in the years past. The main underlying lesson? Women still have an unfair card in many parts of the globe. Work towards evening out the balance and the world will be a better place. Oh and if you ever feel life is being unfair to you, give this book a read and you will realise that just with the necessities that we take for granted, we have so much to be grateful for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>Being a feminist means believing that every woman should be able to use her voice and pursue her potential, and that women and men should all work together to take down the barriers and end the biases that still hold women back.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211; The moment of lift, Melinda Gates<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/blog\/psychology-of-money-morgan-housel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">37. The psychology of money &#8211; Morgan Housel<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the thoughts which drew me towards financial planning was the idea of money being a rational and emotion-led subject. In this book, Housel houses (see what I did there?) a lot of the maxims I have read elsewhere in a concise 20-chapter read. My most memorable eureka moment was the way he explained compounding. Who doesn\u2019t know about a concept we learn in secondary school. But, when he talked about how Warren Buffet really became rich and well known after decades of investing and compounding, the pieces seem to fall in place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>The premise of this book is that doing well with money has little to do with how smart you are and a lot to do with how you behave. And behaviour is hard to teach, even to really smart people.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211; The psychology of money, Morgan Housel<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/31140847-bossman?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=9xCKePp4Fl&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">38. Bossman &#8211; Vi Keeland<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ah, nope! The only thing I will say for this book would be a palate cleanser gone wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/18052969-the-confidence-code?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=9XqxFppcxI&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">39. The confidence code &#8211; Katy Kay and Claire Shipman<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Confidence is like that elixir that you often wish could be bottled and ingested when the need so arose. This book has a well-researched and structured content about how women are lower on confidence. Most importantly, the authors give very actionable ways to increase your confidence barometer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>The newest research shows that we can literally change our brains in ways that affect our thoughts and behaviour at any age. And so, fortunately, a substantial part of the confidence code is what psychologists call volitional: our choice.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211;<\/em> <em>The confidence code, Katy Kay &amp; Claire Shipman<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/42791437-the-new-girl?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=U8SLC0GG38&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">40. The new girl &#8211; Daniel Silva<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a book I nicked from my husband whose main fiction diet is geo thrillers like these. What I really enjoyed apart from the taut plot was the way Silva writes. There is a sense of someone witty and sarcastic writing through a bird\u2019s eye view.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>October<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/32148570-before-we-were-yours?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=m3raVloaOq&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">41. Before we were yours &#8211; Lisa Wingate<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, another historical fiction this time with children at its\u2019 forefront. It is dark and dreary but considering it has its\u2019 antecedents in true events, the book makes for a good read. I also loved the past and present swinging writing technique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>There is no denying that Magnolia Manor is more upscale than the nursing home May Crandall lives in, but both places face the same underlying challenge \u2013 how to provide dignity, care and comfort as life turns difficult corners.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211; Before we were yours, Lisa Wingate<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/16071764-lean-in?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=WBlkWha1K9&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">42. Lean in &#8211; Sheryl Sandberg<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>For years, this was the only book marked&nbsp; on my Goodreads wishlist and finally it\u2019s ticked off. Once I had read it, I also ended up reading so many critiques of the book and the ideas put forth by Sandberg. In my humble opinion, some critiques take the advise on face value to mean that there are no structural issues leading to the imbalance and in a way it is almost like victim shaming. However, I agree with a lot of the pointers I read in the book probably because it was much more action oriented which I have come to believe is the only salve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>My argument is that getting rid of these internal barriers is critical to gaining power. Others have argued that women can get to the top only when the institutional barriers are gone. This is the ultimate chicken-and-egg situation.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>-Lean in, Sherly Sandberg<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/52969580-burnt-sugar?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=XCIBdV9iTx&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">43. Burnt Sugar &#8211; Avni Doshi<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A Booker Prize nominated book, this was a Book Club read for me which was the only reason I completed it. I have read dark books before but this one just seemed to make my mood fouler and fouler by the page. I found the writing unrefined and the book a serious struggle. The only good part was that a discussion of the book made me realise the value of a book club as the varied perspectives did make me think of it differently as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>They do not realise that I have the ears of an owl now, that my aural reach can pick up the movement of my daughter\u2019s breath across the city. This is what it means to be a mother. My claws are ready. I am always hunting.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211;<\/em> <em>Burnt Sugar, Avni Doshi<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/50368.Beastly_Tales_from_Here_and_There?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=Mu9RPnZ2j6&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">44. Beastly tales from here and there &#8211; Vikram Seth<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This year I have been trying my hands at writing limericks, mostly about topical newsworthy items. This book of poetry by Vikram Seth felt so relatable to what I try to do with the limericks I write. It\u2019s a short one but if you enjoy silly rhymes, you won\u2019t be able to tear your eyes away.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>November<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/3760.Diamonds_Are_Forever?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=K7jOcQ2hY7&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">45. Diamonds are forever &#8211; Ian Fleming<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>2020 will be remembered in my personal history as the year when I read a James Bond novel. Although it was my first, it could just be my last as well. My guess is it is just too dated a read for me and the rampant sexism caught me off guard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/31425141-a-necessary-evil?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=pD8Ss4IUZn&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">46. A necessary evil &#8211; Abir Mukherjee<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Oh what a find this book was. I got it as part of a big bountiful stack of books I got from my ex-boss and mentor. The book is part of the Inspector Wyndham and Surrender-not series where a British policeman and his Indian deputy solve crimes in 1920s east India. This particular book concerned itself with resolving the murder of the Prince of Sambalpur, a small province either a part of or close to Orissa. I loved the picture he painted of the era and the fantastic, witty writing style. The plot though was quite typical mystery thriller where it points to everyone except finally the real culprit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>For a few seconds he just stood there, as though he really was divine and the bullets had passed straight through him. Then blotches of bright crimson blood began to soak through the silk of his tunic and he crumpled, like a paper cup in monsoon.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>&#8211; A necessary evil, Abir Mukherjee<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/25614228-unfinished-business?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=TXmpKBGOPR&amp;rank=2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">47. Unfinished business \u2013 Anne-Marie Slaughter<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>As part of my attempt to better understand the way men and women experience the workplace differently, this was another book that came much highly recommended. My one takeaway was the fact that childcare is really the watershed moment when the career tracks end up diverging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>I want a society that opens the possibility for every one of us to have a fulfilling career, or simply a good job with good wages if that\u2019s what we choose, along with a personal life that allows for the deep satisfactions of loving and caring for others.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>-Unfinished business, Anne-Marie Slaughter<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/38359036-the-tattooist-of-auschwitz?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=quU4fWePAR&amp;rank=2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">48. The tattooist of Auschwitz &#8211; Heather Morris<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Another much acclaimed historical fiction including being mentioned by John Grisham at a session in the Tata Lit Fest. But, to be truly honest I didn\u2019t enjoy it much. I appreciate the fact that it brought alive a true story. However, it was definitely way too mushy for me. More importantly, it is such a rich period which has been brought alive by so many novelists so well that for me this fell short even in the camp intrigue that it tried to create.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/49460259-the-ceo-factory?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=GxdGJ3XaqR&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">49. The CEO factory &#8211; Sudhir Sitapati<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This was a book I nicked off my colleagues\u2019 desk knowing he had got it as some award and that he really wasn\u2019t going to read it. It was hands down one of the best Indian Business books I have read till date. Essentially, Siitapati has now been with the Indian consumer goods behemoth Hindustan Unilever in various roles for more than two decades. In this book, he presents a distilled version of the knowledge he has gained in all spheres of management and there is a lot to learn for almost anyone interested in business.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>The Greek historian Herodotus said that when the Persians had to make a decision, they first made it when they were drunk and then made it again when they were sober. The decision had to be the same both times for it to be taken.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite>\u00ad<em>-The CEO factory, Sudhir Sitapati<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>December<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/6853.One_for_the_Money?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=Cvu7FPV3Dl&amp;rank=1\">50. One for the money &#8211; Janet Evanovich<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a book I had picked up many years ago but somehow dropped despite really liking the snarky narrating bounty hunter protagonist Stephanie Plum. Finally, I picked it up again and quite loved it. You know you love a book when even the trailer of the movie adaptation is enough to turn you off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>Burg Catholicism was a convenient religion. When the mind boggled, there was always God, waiting in the wings to take the rap.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite>&#8211;<em>One for the money, Janet Evanovich<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>51. Girlfriends guide \u2013 Vicki Iovine<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Vicki Iovine is known for her sassy girlfriend series of books for almost every life event possible. I picked this one up. While I was laughing along initially, towards the end I sort of stopped relating to being Iovine\u2019s girlfriend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/25179.Blankets?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=e0unqsxIiQ&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">52. Blankets &#8211; Craig Thompson<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Probably my first foray into reading a graphic novel, Blankets was at some points a shock to the senses. Thompson literally puts the graphic in this coming-of-age graphic novel. I realised that while reading a graphic novel, words are almost a support cast with visuals doing so much more work. I am glad I added a graphic novel to my list in 2020 but still unsure of how enjoyable I found the experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/13335037-divergent?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=3KS6sSxJNS&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">53. Divergent \u2013 Veronica Roth*<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This and the last book on the list are the ones I am still in the process of finishing and hoping to polish off as we bid farewell to this weird weird year. The book was recommended by a friend when I told her I was trying to do some research on the idea of post-apocalyptic genre. The concept is quite interesting although slightly Hunger Games-que with the idea of survival forming the heart of the plot. But, I should reserve my comments considering I am still trudging along.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/36337550-the-7-deaths-of-evelyn-hardcastle?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=QhmDVRjxAY&amp;rank=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">54. The 7 1\/2 deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle \u2013 Stuart Turton*<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This was a book recommended by a friend and when I looked it up I was a little surprised I hadn\u2019t encountered it earlier. As I started reading and the plot gradually unravelled, I was amazed. The storyline is shocking to say the least and you are mostly left grappling with trying to figure what is happening (in a good way). But, the writing style takes the cake. You have to be really attentive to ensure you take in all the tiny details strewn around each sentence. What more can I say when even being in the first half of the book I am gushing so much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>Her lips are tight. She\u2019s tugging her sleeves down awkwardly. If she had a shovel, she\u2019d dig herself an escape tunnel. The deeds of good men are not related so reluctantly and I\u2019m already beginning to dread what she has to tell me. Even so, I cannot let this go.<\/em><\/p>\n<cite><em>-The 7 1\/2 deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle \u2013 Stuart Turton<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>That was my 2020 in books although I haven\u2019t specifically talked about a book that I read multiple times. I finally published my first novel <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/55646531-second-serve?ac=1&amp;from_search=true&amp;qid=hI2b92mtsO&amp;rank=1\">Second Serve<\/a>, a mix of romance and sports, in October this year. So far, the reviews have been very encouraging and I am hoping to use that as a push to write more books. Do check it out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can also read my other two years in books right here:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/blog\/year-in-books-2019\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">My year in books \u2013 2019<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elementummoney.com\/blog\/year-in-books-2018\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">My year in books &#8211; 2018<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What did your 2020 look like in terms of books? Did you have a favourite read? Did you read any book from among those that I did? Let me know in the comments below.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For me, this year has been insightful into the practice of reading. For long, I assumed that it is an effortless habit and wondered why more people don\u2019t just jump into the myriad rabbit holes of different worlds that books offered. This year though, I realised that there is more to it than meets the eye. Once the lockdown started, I thought that this would be the year when I would break all possible boundaries of reading a vast variety of enriching books in all possible genres. Gradually, it dawned on me that reading is a very momentum-based habit, which for me had a big trigger. As soon as I sat in almost any public transport especially while travelling alone, my hand would go of its\u2019 own volition to my hand bag to extract the paperback I was lugging around. When you lose a certain rhythm, at times it can get hard to get back or feel the grip of words calling out to you. When I look back at my year in books for 2020, in some ways it\u2019s made up of fits and starts which atleast at a glance looks mostly fine. However, if I were to evaluate myself by more stringent standards, I can just not wait to get back to reading effortlessly again. Read on to check out the 55 books that made up my 2020 to take your picks and hopefully get inspired. As always, click on the title of the book to either land on a blog post for the same or it\u2019s Goodreads page. For most books, I have also added a quote which really caught my fancy from the book. In case you missed it, this is my third Year in Books post and you can check out the previous two right here: My year in books \u2013 2019 My year in books &#8211; 2018 Before you plunge headlong, note that this as usual is my longest post of the year almost hitting 6,500 words. If need be, you might want to bookmark the page and revisit a few times. January 1. Designing your life &#8211; Bill Burnett &amp; Dave Evans This tiny teal blue cover book was one of my scarce American library picks. While there was very little new for anyone who has read maybe 5 or 7 personal growth books, it still gave a good guide map to identify where your life is headed. In case, you feel stuck in life with respect to personal or professional life, then this is a good pick to help with figuring out a way forward. A well designed life is a marvelous portfolio of experiences, of adventures, of failures that taught you important lessons, of hardships that made you stronger and helped you know yourself better, and of achievements and satisfactions.&nbsp; -Designing Your Life, Bill Burnett &amp; Dave Evans 2. Joy luck club &#8211; Amy Tan This book snuck into my reading list in the days of active in-person Book Club meetings. Reading it gave me a wonderful view into the lives of Chinese immigrants in the US over the decades. In some ways, it was a reminder of the joy of reading which can open up totally new worlds. Although, I was a little dissatisfied in the end with the way the stories seemed to hang in balance with no resolution per se. And I think now that fate is shaped half by expectation, half by inattention. But somehow, when you lose something you love, faith takes over. You have to pay attention to what you lost. You have to undo the expectation. -Joy Luck Club, Amy Tan 3. Coffee can investing &#8211; Saurabh Mukherjea, Rakshit Ranjan, Pranab Uniyal One of the few investing reads for me this year, this was one of the better Indian personal finance reads for me. Much acclaimed considering the performance of their portfolio, the strategy gives a good idea of value investing in the Indian landscape. Check out this post for a good idea of some of the gems from the book. Although Kirby made the discovery of the Coffee Can Portfolio sound serendipitous, the central insight behind this construct \u2013 that in order to truly become rich an investor has to let a sensibly constructed portfolio stay untouched for a long period of time \u2013 is as powerful as it is profound. &#8211; Coffee can investing, Saurabh Mukherjea, Rakshit Ranjan, Pranab Uniyal February 4. Girl, woman, other &#8211; Bernadette Everine This much acclaimed Booker Prize winner of 2019 was a Christmas gift from a family member. Hearing and reading all the hype about it, I was pretty intrigued about it myself. God, it was probably my most awful completed book of the year! The novel didn\u2019t really read like one. In fact, I was confused whether these were just character sketches rather than a novel per se. Reading this and another Booker nominee down the line, I did wonder whether I should keep away from all things Booker. As if she was the kind of woman who\u2019s amputate her aspirations to become one of his decorative appendages. &#8211; Girl, woman, other, Bernadette Everine 5. Water for elephants &#8211; Sara Gruen This was an interesting read even though it had quite a bit of masala. Just the world Gruen painted of life at a circus in the early 20th century was fascinating in itself. It made for a good change of scene from most other books. 6. Social: Why our brains are wired to connect &#8211; Mathew Lieberman This book served to cement something I have come to believe in for the last few years. The fact that social connections and friendships are an important ingredient to smoothening out this journey called life. What\u2019s funny though is that I read the book some time before the coronavirus crisis hit, a time which did even more to bring home just how important relationships are in life. Yet the closer friends become, the less they tend to keep track of who has done more or less for one another. Often, a friend\u2019s primary value is the comfort of knowing we have friends. &#8211;Social: Why our brains are wired to connect, Mathew Lieberman 7. Man of her match &#8211; Sakshama Puri Dhariwal This is a book I picked from a pre-loved book sale. While it looked like a usual romantic comedy book, my reason to pick it up was simply because the author was one year my senior in school. However, it also turned out to be like a lot of the other romance books I have read and not been much impressed by. 8. Arabella -Georgette Heyer Having read one of the mysteries written by Georgette Heyer and having thoroughly enjoyed it, I picked up my first Heyer Victorian romances. Reading romance is a guilty pleasure but I am also weirdly picky about it. I realised Victorian romances with a singular plotline are not my cup of tea. Although I may still pick up another Georgette Heyer mystery or two. 9. Made to stick &#8211; Dan &amp; Chip Heath This was an interesting book which reminded me of my days as a marketer. Dan &amp; Chip Heath do a good take on the basis of what makes ideas sticky and how to go about thinking and strategizing for it. It is hard to make ideas stick in a noisy, unpredictable, chaotic environment. If we\u2019re to succeed, the first step is this: Be simple. Not simple in terms of \u201cdumbing down\u201d or \u201csound bites\u201d. You don\u2019t have to speak in monosyllables to be simple. What we mean by \u201csimple\u201d is finding the core of the idea. -Made to stick, Dan &amp; Chip Heath March 10. How remarkable women lead &#8211; Joanna Barsh &amp; Susie Cranston Ironically, two out of the three books I read in the month of celebrating International Womens Week had gender at the heart of it. This book was a good, well-researched analysis of the differences in how women lead and also how some innate female traits could be harnessed for the purpose of leadership. Good things and bad things happen to everyone. What makes the difference is how you work with this raw material of life. Over and over, the women leaders talked about opportunities and how they didn\u2019t hesitate to take them. As we dug deeper, we discovered a recurring theme: These women approached new situations for their possibilities. &#8211;&#8211; How remarkable women lead, Joanna Barsh &amp; Susie Cranston 11. Forest of enchantments &#8211; Chitra Divakaruni The first time I read The Palace of Illusions by Chitra Divakaruni, I was a fan. I have always felt that most religions and mythologies end up giving a short shrift to women. Imagining the same timeless tales from the point of view of a woman is something that enraptured me for sure. In fact, as someone who is embarrassingly low on Hindu mythology knowledge, it is with reading Divakarunis\u2019 take on the two epics, Mahabharat and Ramayana through this book that I have a better hold on those. So yes, read this book to understand and experience Ramayana seen through the lens of Sita. This incident taught me that the more love we distribute, the more it grows, coming back to us from unexpected sources. And it\u2019s corollary: when we demand love, believing it to be our right, it shrivels, leaving only resentment behind. &#8211; Forest of enchantments, Chitra Divakaruni 12. A gentleman in Moscow &#8211; Amor Towles A much acclaimed book, this was a Book Club read for me. Not only did I absolutely love the language but in some ways it was like a trot through a few decades of contemporary Russian history. As for the storyline, I just loved the&nbsp; way Count Alexander Rostov makes the best of his situation and of course, his relationships especially with the two young ladies. If this sounds scandalous, read the book to know it is meant with a pure as snow intent. But while he was liberating a wedge of plum from its pit with his paring knife, the Count happened to note a silvery shadow, as seemingly insubstantial as a puff of smoke, slipping behind his trunk. &#8211; A gentleman in Moscow, Amor Towles April 13. The pact &#8211; Jodi Picoult I have enjoyed many Jodi Picoult novels and this pick from the American Library was no different. I love how she is able to come up with strange human conundrums and then spin such a sparkling, throbbing web around it. In this one, where two teenagers&nbsp; have a suicide pact and only one ends up dying is obviously enough to split families. Add the layer of the two families being neighbours and close friends for years and you know you have all elements of a gripping read. 14. Beartown &#8211; Frederik Backman For me, Frederik Backman is indelibly associated with one of my favouritest (I am willing to bend the language to just convey how much I love this book) reads \u2013 A Man Called Ove. To say I went in with high expectations would be an under statement. While the plot is good and the picture of the town vividly painted, the tone has varied dark undertones of melancholy. Probably coming from another author, I might have enjoyed this book more. Hockey is just a silly little game. We devote year after year after year to it without ever really hoping to get anything in return. We burn and bleed and cry, fully aware that the most the sport can give us, in the very best scenario, is incomprehensibly meagre and worthless: just a few isolated moments of transcendence. That\u2019s all. &#8230;.. But what the hell else is life made of? &#8211;&#8211; Beartown, Frederik Backman 15. The woman in the window &#8211; AJ Finn I really got hooked to this genre of psychological thrillers after reading Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn. On a side note, have you noticed how in this genre the crazy protagonist is mostly female? Anyhow, this was&nbsp; a good change and it did keep you gripped and curious as the layers of the story unfolded, be it with the woman, her tenant or her neighbours. A quick, one-time read for me. 16. Broke millennial: Stop scraping by and get your financial life together &#8211; Erin Lowry As a personal finance blogger, I would have to be seriously ignorant to not have heard of Erin Lowry or her Broke Millennial franchise. This was her first book in the series. While I ended up reading her second book on investing last year, I gave a shot to the first one this time. Although I wrote about it in detail, the one lasting impression I remember from this book was a very school matron kind of tone who is also trying really hard to fit in and talk in the cool kids\u2019 language. If I had to recommend a basic financial book even to a youngster, this may not really make the cut. May 17. Meet me at the cupcake caf\u00e9 &#8211; Jenny Colgan To be honest, I really loved the plot. Probably because almost anyone who enjoys baking has often though of ditching a regular job to do it the whole wide day and earn money from the endeavour. But, there was nothing too exciting in the writing or how things unfolded. My favourite part of the book? The cupcake recipes sprinkled through it! Life was always easier, reflected Issy, when you were carrying a large Tupperware full of cakes. Everyone was happy to see you then. &#8211; Meet me at the cupcake caf\u00e9, Jenny Colgan 18. Map of the heart &#8211; Susan Wiggs Oh, this was a fun book. A woman who goes to Tuscany and then ends up getting links to World War two in her family history is right up my alley. History and travel with a dash of romance made for a good read. 19. Born a crime &#8211; Trevor Noah One of the most acclaimed autobiographies of the year, in the middle of the lockdown it made me feel greatful for my blessings in life. Also, reading about Noah\u2019s growing up years felt like diving into a different world and indulging in wanderlust at a time when it was physically impossible. Although, at the end I felt like I didn\u2019t get what I was promised. My main curiosity of how Noah made that jump from poor quarters in Johannesburg to becoming a well-acclaimed celebrity in the US was never addressed. But then, that is what leaves room for another book, right? People are willing to accept you if they see you as an outsider trying to assimilate into their world. But when they see you as a fellow tribe member attempting to disavow the tribe, that is something they will never forgive. &#8211;&#8211; Born a crime, Trevor Noah 20. The hating game &#8211; Sally Thorpe For me, romance books are often like palate cleansers. After a few serious or heavy reads, I need a break. However, despite fairly high ratings I didn\u2019t really enjoy this office romance much. 21. The fountains of silence &#8211; Ruta Septys For a few days after finishing this book I was floating with a warm glow of having ingested a memorable read. Based in General Franco-era Spain and unfolding over a few decades, I was enamored. It\u2019s one of those books that I have probably recommended to almost any reader I bumped into this year. The spinning of the story, blending of the facts and just the sensory details of the era were absolutely bewitching. A must must read. There are colors of beauty in Madrid, but also colors of hardship. Ghosts of war walk the streets in Spain. Daniel passes blind lottery vendors, citizens missing limbs, young people using canes. Should he look directly at them and acknowledge their sacrifice or look away and honor their dignity? &#8211; The fountains of silence, Ruta Septys June 22. Factfulness &#8211; Hans Rosling Sometimes, books come in your life at the perfect time. It was June and the realisation of this war against coronavirus being long drawn was beginning to hit in waves of pessimism. At that moment, I picked up this book that comes highly recommended by Bill Gates. And was I glad I did so?! Rosling demonstrated how we humans mostly focus on the negative aspects of our life not bothering to see the slow, creeping signs of progress. As I read of his experience in trying to stall the rampant spread of ebola, all I could think of was wish he was still alive to be a valuable ally in defeating this crazy disease. Factfulness is \u2026 recognizing when a story talks about a gap, and remembering that this paints a picture of two separate groups, with a gap in between. The reality is often not polarized at all. Usually the majority is right there in the middle, where the gap is supposed to be. &#8211; Factfulness, Hans Rosling 23. Mastering the market cycle &#8211; Howard Marks I confess I am slightly embarrassed to admit that this was my first time discovering Horward Marks. Although his fund specialises in distressed assets, all the things that he said made so much sense for my favourite asset of equities as well. However, if I were to critically mention one thing then I think the book could have been better edited and shorter. A lot of times the same things and aspects seemed to be repeated with a gift wrap. If we study past cycles, understand their origins and import, and keep alert for the next one, we don\u2019t have to reinvent the wheel in order to understand every investment environment anew. And we have less of a chance of being blindsided by events. We can master these recurring patterns for our betterment. &#8211; Mastering the market cycle, Howard Marks 24. The first Muslim &#8211; Leslie Hazleton The book was recommended to me by a friend last year which I finally read this time round. Although I have a few muslim friends and have read a bit about the rise of Islam during my graduation years in history, I admit my understanding was still very superficial. This book is fantastic for anyone wanting to know more about one of the world\u2019s most important religions and how it came about. What it also does really well is to show Muhammad more as a human life with some of the greys in it as well. Perhaps this is why it can be so hard to see who Muhammad really was. The purity of perfection denies the complexity of a lived life. &#8211; The first Muslim, Leslie Hazleton 25. I am not your perfect Mexican daughter &#8211; Erika Sanchez The beautiful title and the cover drew me to this book. I loved getting a glimpse into a Mexican household and viewing the opposing pulls on coming-of-age immigrant kids. Apart from that, the intrigue in the story too makes it well worth a read. \u201cGet back here,\u201d Ama yells after me. \u201cWhat kind of a woman are you going to be if you can\u2019t even make a tortilla?\u201d &#8211; I am not your perfect Mexican daughter, Erika Sanchez 26. Erotic stories for punjabi widows &#8211; Balli Kaur Jaswal Another story with immigrant culture at its\u2019 heart, the title of the book is an outright winner. As for the storyline, the main skeleton of repressed desires of women especially widows was a win for me. The evolution of characters and treading with caution on tricky cultural lines was all done beautifully in this quick read. July 27. Indistractable &#8211; Nir Eyal Another productivity read, although after Cal Newports\u2019 Deep Work all others seem like pale imitations. This one was a good one-time read with decent lessons to take home. 28. The airbnb story &#8211; Leigh Gallaghar What an year to read about airbnb, one where in the middle of the year they announce a 25{76b947d7ef5b3424fa3b69da76ad2c33c34408872c6cc7893e56cc055d3cd886} employee cut only to end the same year with an IPO listing at 112{76b947d7ef5b3424fa3b69da76ad2c33c34408872c6cc7893e56cc055d3cd886} premium. As someone who has an entrepreneurial itch that is yet to be scratched, this was a good, well-balanced read. If you are someone who looks at the valuations of star startups in envy, reading this books gives a good insight into just how much it took to get there. It isn\u2019t just Chesky, Gebbia and Blecharczyk espouse these beliefs, too, and they permeate the air at the company\u2019s headquarters. The company likes to say that it is \u201cthe UN at the kitchen table,\u201d bringing people together from different worlds and uniting strangers. &#8211; The airbnb story, Leigh Gallaghar 29. Too much and never enough &#8211; Mary Trump Ugh! Yeah, that\u2019s my description for the book in one word. I am no Trump supporter and considering the flurry of books that were being released that time, this one seemed like a good one to attempt. The only thing Mary seemed to be attempting to do is draw the readers\u2019 attention to the fact that her father (who clearly had failings of his own) was mistreated by his brother Donald and grandfather who always favoured the younger one. Funnily enough, the book starts on a note of Mary attending an event Donald organised, hosting the entire extended family to the White House for one of the sisters\u2019 birthdays. Strike one for hypocrisy is how I saw it. Spoiler alert, there is a lot of name calling in the book too. Only the most dedicated optimist could have lived in Sunnyside Towers without losing hope. There was no doorman, and the plastic plants and flowers that filled the two large planters on either side of the plexiglass front door were perpetually coated in a thin film of dust. -Too much and never enough, Mary Trump August 30. Maybe you should talk to someone &#8211; Lori Gottlieb When most places in the world are seeing a spike in the number of people seeking help for mental health, this book strikes a fine balance. Gottlieb perfectly blends together stories from her practice as a therapist with her experience of seeing one herself, all in a very breezy readable manner. Along the way, she sprinkles beautiful gems that can help while living our lives. But what are we so afraid of? It\u2019s not as if we\u2019re going to peer in those darker corners, flip on the light, and find a bunch of cockroaches. Fireflies love the dark too. There\u2019s beauty in those places. But we have to look in there to see it. &#8211; Maybe you should talk to someone, Lori Gottlieb 31. An American marriage &#8211; Tayari Jones This was a recommendation by Barack Obama in one of his book lists. With this one, I am a bit on the fence. I thought it had a decent plot and complexities to it. But, even as I got done with it, I never understood what the hype was all about. If you have a woman, you recognise when you have said the wrong thing. Somehow she rearranges the ions in the air and you can\u2019t breathe as well. &#8211; An American marriage, Tayari Jones 32. The wall of Winnipeg and me &#8211; Mariana Zapata Sports and romance is obviously a favoured mix for me considering that\u2019s what I used as a backdrop in my debut with Second Serve. However, what gets to me is when romance&nbsp; gets too fluffy or too heavy with emotion which I thought this book was also guilty of. 33. Shoe dog &#8211; Phil Knight One of the best business books I have read. Global brands are something most of us come in contact with once they are already of a certain stature. With Shoe Dog, it was quite a journey to go behind the scenes and see the brand being birthed and nourished to the size that it has attained. My big takeaway?&nbsp; Get into a business only if you have a burning passion which can sustain you through the bumps that it will inevitable come with. So that morning in 1962 I told myself: Let everyone else call your idea crazy\u2026 just keep going. Don\u2019t stop. Don\u2019t even think about stopping until you get there, and don\u2019t give much thought to where \u201cthere\u201d is. Whatever comes, just don\u2019t stop. &#8211; Shoe dog, Phil Knight 34. Man&#8217;s search for meaning &#8211; Viktor Frankl This was like a follow up book that I picked up after reading Gottlieb\u2019s Maybe you should talk to someone. While the sexist title still gets my goat, this short heavy read just strengthened my resolve of continuing to hunt for meaning in my life. A meaning that doesn\u2019t come with a price tag. If not the book, definitely Wikipedia&nbsp; Frankl to be awed by the life he led. The prisoner who has lost faith in the future \u2013 his future \u2013 was doomed. With his loss of belief in the future, he also lost his spiritual hold; he let himself decline and become subject to mental and physical decay. &#8211; Man&#8217;s search for meaning, Viktor Frankl September 35. The dressmakers gift &#8211; Fiona Valpy It really was a year of quite a few historical fiction reads for me. Paris, Second World War, Fashion. Need I say any more? Although, in my opinion three things make a historical fiction really sparkle \u2013 setting, story plot line and writing quality. For me, this book ticked the first two boxes very well although the third was just fine. In case of Fountains of Silence by Ruta Septys in May, all three boxes were a winner. Life can seem so very tenuous sometimes. But perhaps that fragility is why we treasure it so. And perhaps it is our profound love of life that makes us so terrified of losing it. &#8211; The dressmakers gift, Fiona Valpy 36. The moment of lift &#8211; Melinda Gates A lot of us harbour envy and to an extent disgust for the uber rich. But, for the last few years I have come to believe money only accentuates your value. The right person will use money and their position to open doors for the right things. This book reinforced my faith in this thought. Melinda Gates outlines some of the lessons she has learnt through the work she has done for the Gates foundation in the years past. The main underlying lesson? Women still have an unfair card in many parts of the globe. Work towards evening out the balance and the world will be a better place. Oh and if you ever feel life is being unfair to you, give this book a read and you will realise that just with the necessities that we take for granted, we have so much to be grateful for. Being a feminist means believing that every woman should be able to use her voice and pursue her potential, and that women and men should all work together to take down the barriers and end the biases that still hold women back. &#8211; The moment of lift, Melinda Gates 37. The psychology of money &#8211; Morgan Housel One of the thoughts which drew me towards financial planning was the idea of money being a rational and emotion-led subject. In this book, Housel houses (see what I did there?) a lot of the maxims I have read elsewhere in a concise 20-chapter read. My most memorable eureka moment was the way he explained compounding. Who doesn\u2019t know about a concept we learn in secondary school. But, when he talked about how Warren Buffet really became rich and well known after decades of investing and compounding, the pieces seem to fall in place. The premise of this book is that doing well with money has little to do with how smart you are and a lot to do with how you behave. And behaviour is hard to teach, even to really smart people. &#8211; The psychology of money, Morgan Housel 38. Bossman &#8211; Vi Keeland Ah, nope! The only thing I will say for this book would be a palate cleanser gone wrong. 39. The confidence code &#8211; Katy Kay and Claire Shipman Confidence is like that elixir that you often wish could be bottled and ingested when the need so arose. This book has a well-researched and structured content about how women are lower on confidence. Most importantly, the authors give very actionable ways to increase your confidence barometer. The newest research shows that we can literally change our brains in ways that affect our thoughts and behaviour at any age. And so, fortunately, a substantial part of the confidence code is what psychologists call volitional: our choice. &#8211; The confidence code, Katy Kay &amp; Claire Shipman 40. The new girl &#8211; Daniel Silva This is a book I nicked from my husband whose main fiction diet is geo thrillers like these. What I really enjoyed apart from the taut plot was the way Silva writes. There is a sense of someone witty and sarcastic writing through a bird\u2019s eye view. October 41. Before we were yours &#8211; Lisa Wingate Yes, another historical fiction this time with children at its\u2019 forefront. It is dark and dreary but considering it has its\u2019 antecedents in true events, the book makes for a good read. I also loved the past and present swinging writing technique. There is no denying that Magnolia Manor is more upscale than the nursing home May Crandall lives in, but both places face the same underlying challenge \u2013 how to provide dignity, care and comfort as life turns difficult corners. &#8211; Before we were yours, Lisa Wingate 42. Lean in &#8211; Sheryl Sandberg For years, this was the only book marked&nbsp; on my Goodreads wishlist and finally it\u2019s ticked off. Once I had read it, I also ended up reading so many critiques of the book and the ideas put forth by Sandberg. In my humble opinion, some critiques take the advise on face value to mean that there are no structural issues leading to the imbalance and in a way it is almost like victim shaming. However, I agree with a lot of the pointers I read in the book probably because it was much more action oriented which I have come to believe is the only salve. My argument is that getting rid of these internal barriers is critical to gaining power. Others have argued that women can get to the top only when the institutional barriers are gone. This is the ultimate chicken-and-egg situation. -Lean in, Sherly Sandberg 43. Burnt Sugar &#8211; Avni Doshi A Booker Prize nominated book, this was a Book Club read for me which was the only reason I completed it. I have read dark books before but this one just seemed to make my mood fouler and fouler by the page. I found the writing unrefined and the book a serious struggle. The only good part was that a discussion of the book made me realise the value of a book club as the varied perspectives did make me think of it differently as well. They do not realise that I have the ears of an owl now, that my aural reach can pick up the movement of my daughter\u2019s breath across the city. This is what it means to be a mother. My claws are ready. I am always hunting. &#8211; Burnt Sugar, Avni Doshi 44. Beastly tales from here and there &#8211; Vikram Seth This year I have been trying my hands at writing limericks, mostly about topical newsworthy items. This book of poetry by Vikram Seth felt so relatable to what I try to do with the limericks I write. It\u2019s a short one but if you enjoy silly rhymes, you won\u2019t be able to tear your eyes away. November 45. Diamonds are forever &#8211; Ian Fleming 2020 will be remembered in my personal history as the year when I read a James Bond novel. Although it was my first, it could just be my last as well. My guess is it is just too dated a read for me and the rampant sexism caught me off guard. 46. A necessary evil &#8211; Abir Mukherjee Oh what a find this book was. I got it as part of a big bountiful stack of books I got from my ex-boss and mentor. The book is part of the Inspector Wyndham and Surrender-not series where a British policeman and his Indian deputy solve crimes in 1920s east India. This particular book concerned itself with resolving the murder of the Prince of Sambalpur, a small province either a part of or close to Orissa. I loved the picture he painted of the era and the fantastic, witty writing style. The plot though was quite typical mystery thriller where it points to everyone except finally the real culprit. For a few seconds he just stood there, as though he really was divine and the bullets had passed straight through him. Then blotches of bright crimson blood began to soak through the silk of his tunic and he crumpled, like a paper cup in monsoon. &#8211; A necessary evil, Abir Mukherjee 47. Unfinished business \u2013 Anne-Marie Slaughter As part of my attempt to better understand the way men and women experience the workplace differently, this was another book that came much highly recommended. My one takeaway was the fact that childcare is really the watershed moment when the career tracks end up diverging. I want a society that opens the possibility for every one of us to have a fulfilling career, or simply a good job with good wages if that\u2019s what we choose, along with a personal life that allows for the deep satisfactions of loving and caring for others. -Unfinished business, Anne-Marie Slaughter 48. The tattooist of Auschwitz &#8211; Heather Morris Another much acclaimed historical fiction including being mentioned by John Grisham at a session in the Tata Lit Fest. But, to be truly honest I didn\u2019t enjoy it much. I appreciate the fact that it brought alive a true story. However, it was definitely way too mushy for me. More importantly, it is such a rich period which has been brought alive by so many novelists so well that for me this fell short even in the camp intrigue that it tried to create. 49. The CEO factory &#8211; Sudhir Sitapati This was a book I nicked off my colleagues\u2019 desk knowing he had got it as some award and that he really wasn\u2019t going to read it. It was hands down one of the best Indian Business books I have read till date. Essentially, Siitapati has now been with the Indian consumer goods behemoth Hindustan Unilever in various roles for more than two decades. In this book, he presents a distilled version of the knowledge he has gained in all spheres of management and there is a lot to learn for almost anyone interested in business. The Greek historian Herodotus said that when the Persians had to make a decision, they first made it when they were drunk and then made it again when they were sober. The decision had to be the same both times for it to be taken. \u00ad-The CEO factory, Sudhir Sitapati December 50. One for the money &#8211; Janet Evanovich This is a book I had picked up many years ago but somehow dropped despite really liking the snarky narrating bounty hunter protagonist Stephanie Plum. Finally, I picked it up again and quite loved it. You know you love a book when even the trailer of the movie adaptation is enough to turn you off. Burg Catholicism was a convenient religion. When the mind boggled, there was always God, waiting in the wings to take the rap. &#8211;One for the money, Janet Evanovich 51. Girlfriends guide \u2013 Vicki Iovine Vicki Iovine is known for her sassy girlfriend series of books for almost every life event possible. I picked this one up. While I was laughing along initially, towards the end I sort of stopped relating to being Iovine\u2019s girlfriend. 52. Blankets &#8211; Craig Thompson Probably my first foray into reading a graphic novel, Blankets was at some points a shock to the senses. Thompson literally puts the graphic in this coming-of-age graphic novel. I realised that while reading a graphic novel, words are almost a support cast with visuals doing so much more work. I am glad I added a graphic novel to my list in 2020 but still unsure of how enjoyable I found the experience. 53. Divergent \u2013 Veronica Roth* This and the last book on the list are the ones I am still in the process of finishing and hoping to polish off as we bid farewell to this weird weird year. The book was recommended by a friend when I told her I was trying to do some research on the idea of post-apocalyptic genre. The concept is quite interesting although slightly Hunger Games-que with the idea of survival forming the heart of the plot. But, I should reserve my comments considering I am still trudging along. 54. The 7 1\/2 deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle \u2013 Stuart Turton* This was a book recommended by a friend and when I looked it up I was a little surprised I hadn\u2019t encountered it earlier. As I started reading and the plot gradually unravelled, I was amazed. The storyline is shocking to say the least and you are mostly left grappling with trying to figure what is happening (in a good way). But, the writing style takes the cake. You have to be really attentive to ensure you take in all the tiny details strewn around each sentence. What more can I say when even being in the first half of the book I am gushing so much. Her lips are tight. She\u2019s tugging her sleeves down awkwardly. If she had a shovel, she\u2019d dig herself an escape tunnel. The deeds of good men are not related so reluctantly and I\u2019m already beginning to dread what she has to tell me. Even so, I cannot let this go. -The 7 1\/2 deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle \u2013 Stuart Turton That was my 2020 in books although I haven\u2019t specifically talked about a book that I read multiple times. I finally published my first novel Second Serve, a mix of romance and sports, in October this year. So far, the reviews have been very encouraging and I am hoping to use that as a push to write more books. Do check it out. You can also read my other two years in books right here: My year in books \u2013 2019 My year in books &#8211; 2018 What did your 2020 look like in terms of books? Did you have a favourite read? Did you read any book from among those that I did? 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